Mary Lowes will be remembered for the passion she showed towards local sports and helping out whenever she could
Burford will say its final farewells on Friday to a woman who distinguished herself as a lover and supporter of local sports and a person who enjoyed helping out whenever she could. Funeral services for Mary Lowes will be held on Friday, Sept. 3 at Blessed Sacrament Church, in Burford. Mrs. Lowes passed away on Monday at the age of 78. A life-long resident of the local area, Mary and husband, Cliff, moved to Burford from Brantford about a year after they were married on Feb. 14, 1955. Here they raised their two children, Rob Lowes and Lori Feeney. It was through their children’s, and particularly Rob’s, involvement in minor sports that Mary’s passion for sports began to manifest itself. Over the years she developed an iconic reputation as many teams’ “super fan”. She was an avid supporter of Burford Minor Hockey, the Burford Bulldogs, Norwich Junior “C” team and the Brantford Red Sox. She volunteered her time in many capacities over the years, including timekeeping, fundraising, keeping statistics and serving on executive committees. One of her particular talents was in dealing with the media. Rob recalls how, at one point, she wrote reports for The Burford Advance and The Brantford Expositor on behalf of virtually every travel team in the Burford Minor Hockey system, as well as submitted game results and other news to the local radio station. But that takes second place to what she was best known for. “Mom loved to yell,” Rob said with a smile, referring to her boisterous commentary that regularly boomed from the stands in the arena whenever she was in attendance. As a result, Mary gained notoriety amongst coaches, players, referees and fans for the extra element that she brought to life at the arena. It was a reputation that extended beyond Burford’s borders. Rob shared that, on more than one occasion, he would be talking to an out-of-towner who, on learning Rob was from Burford, would say that he had been at the Burford arena and you should have heard this lady in the stands. “I’d tell him, that’s my mom,” Rob smiled. She had a particularly impassioned love/ hate relationship with referees, depending on how her home team was doing on the ice. Those who made the unwise decision to challenge her taunts soon regretted it, because she had no equal when it came to a snappy comeback. “I loved Mary,” Parks and Facilities Manager Don Holmes said. “She brought a lot of enjoyment and enthusiasm to the arena. She was very dedicated to the game and to the kids.” He added, only half jokingly, that he thinks the new “Referees’ Room” at the refurbished community centre should be named after her. “Mary would love that,” he smiled. But Mary’s antics as a fan, while full of genuine passion, were basically all in fun. The mention of her name invariably brings a smile to the faces of those who regularly frequent the arena. “She meant no harm,” Rob said. “Mom was the type of person who could take a strip off of you and, 20 minutes later, it was like nothing had happened.” “She really enjoyed being involved with sports, and I guess it showed,” he added. “For her it was something to do, rather than knitting or crocheting.” Mary brought a like passion to everything else she did in her life, including her work with the Burford Lioness and the Blessed Sacrament C.W.L., and simply being a good neighbour and community member. “She enjoyed helping other people,” Rob said. “She liked to be praised and thanked, but she did it for the love of it.” In 1994, the Burford community honoured Mary with the “Friend of Youth” award, part of the Citizen of the Year award program. Three years earlier, Cliff had been recognized with the “Good Neighbour” award. Mary and Cliff were always a team, whether it be at the arena (Cliff as timekeeper and Mary as “super fan”), working on various Lions projects or enjoying life with their family. But she claimed her famous butter tarts as her own alone. “For as long as I can remember, Mom baked butter tarts,” Rob recalled. “We’d have a family get-together and people would be put right off if the butter tarts weren’t there.” As a result of her many involvements in sports and the community at large, Mary met a lot of nice people which enriched her life, Rob added. In the process, she enriched the lives of all who knew her, and leaves behind a grateful community and family. “I used to think that dragging me out to arenas, and having a mother in the stands that everyone knew, was a bit of a curse, but I don’t think I’d change a bit of it,” Rob concluded. “If I could live her life, do what she did and live to the age she did, I would consider I had a pretty complete life.” Besides Lori and Rob & wife Carolyn, Mary leaves behind grandchildren Leesha, Nathan, Aidrianna, Carmela and Kiana. Friends will be received at the Keith Ovington Funeral Home, 134 King Street, Burford on Thursday, Sept. 2 from 2:00-4:00 and 7:00-9:00 p.m. Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at Blessed Sacrament Church, 183 King Street, Burford, on Friday, Sept. 3 at 11:00 a.m. Interment will be in Pioneer Cemetery, Burford. Donations in Mary’s memory may be made to the Burford Lions Way or charity of choice.
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